The Archives
A compository of my thoughts, feelings, and things I’ve learned.
Problems With Being Ambiamorous and the Confusion It Causes Others
I’m beginning to understand how confusing I can be in relationships. Sometimes that comes from my attachment style – a weird combination of secure/healthy (Thanks, Mom!) and fearful/disorganized (Thanks, dad),[…]
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Three Months Sober: Gratitude, Regret, and the Road Forward
They gave me celebratory chips today—24 Hours, 1 month, 2 month and 3 months since quitting alcohol. It’s been exactly three months since I made the decision to quit. But[…]
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Feeling “Seen”: The 7.5 Hour Phone Marathon
I’m logging a text note I sent a new friend this afternoon. It deserves a preface for context.I do not like talking on the phone and treat it “as needed”.[…]
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